Of course, those who already know how to quickly attract the attention of the opposite sex and win favor will not waste time on telephone conversations. But these people were also once nervous before their first meeting; they didn’t know where to start a conversation or how to behave. Most likely, they also began to gain such experience through telephone dating.
List of numbers
In fact, choosing the right numbers for real dating is not so difficult. For example, you can find out your neighbor’s address and get the treasured numbers using the telephone directory. It’s even easier to ask your friends if they have available girls in their circle of friends who, in their opinion, would not mind spending time in your company. Of course, you will have to promise that they will not admit who exactly gave their phone number. In reality, there are many more ways to find the right number, but these are the simplest and most effective.
Try to have as many numbers on your list as possible because someone is bound to be unavailable, busy, or married. Therefore, after the first failure, you don’t need to give up, and a long list will definitely help you with this.
Purpose of the call
If you decide to start actually getting acquainted over the phone, then your main task is to intrigue the stranger and set up a date. a meeting with your beloved girl may not take place, but no one except you two will know about it, and this should provide you with moral peace of mind. Therefore, stop being bored alone, it’s time to start building your own personal happiness.
Today you will learn something very important – how to get a girl’s phone number. You already have a certain knowledge base obtained from the lesson "". There I indicated to you the topics of conversation, and outlined how to properly approach and establish contact.
Now all you have to do is learn how to take the number without any problems - and it’s in your pocket.
A little about psychological preparation
As always, you need to be well prepared to attack. That is, you should stop being nervous - girls can smell your fear a mile away. If you cannot overcome your anxiety, it is better to postpone the action, because you are still unlikely to get a good result.
TOP 5 methods to get a number without further ado
There are just a lot of ways to get a girl’s phone number in an original way. But you must understand that such methods do not always lead to a date.
You just get as many numbers as you can and then start calling them. And only a tiny percentage will agree to continue communicating with you. But it still works! Let it be this way.
Method No. 1. Came up, took it and left
Imagine that you are really in a hurry, and you see a beautiful lady on the horizon. Approach her with a bold, confident step and immediately ask her for her number:
"Hello. Sorry, I'm late for work, but if I don't even try to get your number, I'll blame myself for another month. I really want to get to know you better. What do you think about that".
All is ready.
Method No. 2. Trick the number out
I believe that this method also has its place. But you must learn that at the end of any “divorce” it is better to confess this to the girl. Just smile and say:
“Sorry, I actually just wanted to get your number. I really liked you and I would like to continue communicating.”
This way you don’t lose anything - you already have the number. But if you start calling a girl and she herself realizes about the deception (and this cannot be avoided) - 50% that it will amuse her, but also 50% that it will make her angry.
Method No. 3. You are conducting social survey
Take a pen and a blank A4 sheet. It's better to write something there in advance. Go up to a beautiful girl and tell her that you are conducting a survey about... well, I don’t know, dairy products, for example. Ask her to indicate her name and ask a couple of questions:
“Do you often buy dairy products in the supermarket”, “Which ones do you prefer?”.
Then ask for a mobile number, referring to the fact that the company is holding promotions and sweepstakes and she can receive a prize. Next, just confess everything to her as I described above.
Method No. 4. Ask her to dial your number
This is the most common and working method. Just ask the girl to help you:
“My battery is dead, I’m late for a meeting, and a very important person is waiting for me there. Could you please dial him and tell him I’ll be there in 15 minutes?”.
Naturally, you dictate your number to her, a call comes to your phone and her number is in your pocket.
Method No. 5. Shock the girl
For example, you can be in the park (there is a video like this on YouTube), tape a piece of paper on your chest with the inscription “Give me your number” and put on a zip-up sweater on top. Next, you simply stop the girl and ask her for directions to some place. While she is explaining to you, you say that you will show her something and unzip your jacket.
The girls' reaction to such a gesture is ambiguous. But most of the ladies with a sense of humor still appreciated the joke and the guy received a mobile number:
What to do if a girl goes with a friend
Guys, why are you afraid of two girls? In fact, getting to know them is much easier - then they are more open, none of them wants to seem paranoid or uncommunicative, and they are willing to make contact.
If a girl is with a friend and you come up, she will consider you a brave guy. What should you do
Approach girls and compliment them. Yes, yes, you will have to please the one you don’t like. You talk to them for a short time (literally a minute), using humor, compliments and other important things. Then you easily take “your” girl by the elbow, look at her friend and say: “Do you mind if I steal your girlfriend for a second? I need to tell her something.". At the same time, you don’t so much ask as inform.
Take the girl three meters away from your friend (jealous friends always get in the way) and turn her back to her. Tell : “I just really liked you. Can you give me your phone number".
You will take the number even if the girl is with company
When a girl is in a cafe in the company of her friends, you run the risk of encountering the following difficulties: she will be embarrassed to give you her number so as not to seem too approachable, a couple of her friends will definitely elbow her out of envy and say “he’s ugly.” So do this:
- Establish non-verbal contact with her: smile, catch her gaze, stop yours.
- When you feel that a girl is interested in you, go up and ask her for a second.
- Take her aside from their table and just ask for her number.
5 important rules
- Always introduce yourself before asking for a number.
- If your conversation has reached a dead end, the girl looks around and figures out (probably) how to evade you, it’s better not to ask for your number.
- Never send your boyfriend, girlfriend, brother, etc. - always come yourself. Otherwise, what kind of man are you?
- When you ask for a number, hold the phone in your hands. This is an important rule. Show her that you need the number now and you are ready to write it down.
- No: “Hey, baby,” “Baby, can you share your number,” and other similar phrases.
Now you can definitely get a girl’s number without any problems. The main thing is don’t screw it up when!
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But are you embarrassed to take her number? How to get a girl's phone number?
Of course, you can follow the old scheme and just say: "Leave your number". But you don’t want to be like everyone else. You need to come up with something that can set you apart from others.
Calmly. I will share with you some tips on how to get a girl's phone number. And you can learn how to conquer any young lady from my video tutorials.
How to get a girl's phone number correctly:
1. Make an appointment.
The original way to ask for her number is to simply make an appointment, rather than whining and begging. You just need to choose the right moment for this.
You don't ask for anything, an offer comes from you.
If she likes you, then the question is "Why do you need my phone number?" will disappear as unnecessary. But at the same time she may ask where exactly you will go. So let you have an idea in advance.
2. Take, not ask.
There is no need to beg for anything! You are obviously in a losing position when a girl has power over you and decides whether you will meet again or not.
Don’t ask, don’t ask, don’t beg for a phone number - such a conversation is not for a strong man.
For example, you can openly say that you liked her and you want to meet her again. And for this you need her phone number.
When you write it down, send her a beacon to make sure you wrote everything down correctly. This is also important because many young ladies do not pick up the phone when they receive calls from unfamiliar numbers. Guaranteed way to fly!
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3. Shift the focus.
There are two options for getting a girl’s phone number.
In the first case, you ask her for her number and wait for her to answer you. At this moment, a stupid smile spreads across your face, and your palms begin to sweat. Not the best deal.
There is a second option, when you simply start telling her that you have an offer to meet. And at this time you hand her your phone so that she writes down the number.
You can tell her exactly where you will go, what you will do and how much fun you will have together. This behavior will work better because you are in a winning position and are not asking anything from her.
4. Be persistent.
Excuses are women's tests that they use to weed out those who do not want enough and merge.
I heard these phrases: “I’m not dating”, “I have a boyfriend”, “I’m in a hurry”. This is all just to get rid of those who are not persistent enough. Find a great occasion and get acquainted situationally.
If you give it to everyone, the bed will break.
She should clearly form the impression that you are very interested in her. Make her feel special, this always works great on girls.
5. Don't give up.
There is no need to give up and think that everything is lost if she initially refused.
Perhaps you did it too early, when your acquaintance had just begun. If she told you no, just talk to her some more. And after some time, try to get her number again.
But do it exactly when she understands that you can be trusted. Put her at ease, give her a compliment, demonstrate your sense of humor. Show that you are a normal guy and it’s not scary to meet you again.
Many girls are afraid that they will fall for some telephone maniac who will bombard them with messages and calls. So tell her that you have a lot of work to do and you will only call her tomorrow.
As soon as you see that the girl has relaxed, you can write and offer to meet.
Bonuses:
- Even if you did everything correctly, the young lady may throw a couple of checks at you: "I don't give away my numbers" “Let me write down yours,” “Let me leave you my Facebook/Instagram/VK. I wouldn’t give my number to the first person I meet.” And so on. There are 4 ways to dispose of these checks.
- The most important thing is not what you say, but how you say it. That is, your internal state. The girl notices everything: your facial expressions, your gestures and even the tone of your voice.
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Great, we've dealt with the topic " Communication with a girl on VKontakte“, let’s say you gained the girl’s trust. Your communication continues for 3 days and everything goes smoothly. It's time to find a clue to take the girl's phone. The fact is that this is the most common model of meeting a girl on the Internet - Correspondence -> Telephone conversation -> Meeting.
A telephone conversation is a new stage in your communication. Before this, you were just texting, but now you will have to call her and chat, now you will hear her, but not see her yet.
How to correctly take a phone from a girl on VKontakte.
The point is that this is an important point. You can invite her to a meeting by writing to her on VKontakte, but the effect will not be the same. By taking her phone and calling her, you give her an idea of the real you, so you still need to call before the meeting, and to call, you need to pick up the phone.
When you feel that the girl is ready to meet, you can take her phone number. How to understand when she is ripe for a meeting?
- She will test you to see if you have a girlfriend.
- Approve your messages with emoticons.
- She will have an increased interest in your personality.
- You will notice that it is no longer you who are writing to her, but she is writing to you.
- Fear of losing you, which arises in cases when you go somewhere or suddenly interrupt communication.
- She will want you to turn your attention to communicating with her.
- Gently and sometimes openly hints about a meeting .
You need to take the phone: either naturally, or playfully, or impressive.
The effect will not be as strong if you interrupt your conversation and offer to meet, rather than when she is completely ready for the meeting, your task will only be to ask for her phone number, which she is already ready to give herself.
Natural approach. You approach the issue of a meeting as the logical conclusion of your VKontakte conversation. The premiere of a new film recently came out, and she has been waiting for this premiere for so long, and you don’t mind going to see this film, what’s the matter? You invite a girl to the cinema, ask for her phone number and say that you will call her back at the time you specified. Everything happens naturally, as if it’s the way it should be, you already know a little about each other, it’s time to take your acquaintance to another level, to a more acceptable one for you and for her.
An effective method. You can write to her that you have prepared a surprise for her, intrigue her. She will immediately be overwhelmed with curiosity about your surprise. But the fact is that the essence of the surprise will be to meet in real life and only then she will receive it. While she is all guessing and intrigued, you can take her phone number in order to agree on when she can receive it. If you intrigue her well, the girl herself will strive to meet you in order to receive her surprise. The main thing is that you think about this very gift for her when you meet. You can blindfold her and take her to an unforgettable romantic place, or you can simply arrange a romantic dinner for two, it all depends on your imagination, so think through everything.
Comic method. This method is suitable when your communication with her is based on jokes and gags. When you are together making each other happy, being sad is definitely not your thing. Then in this case you can take the girl’s phone as a joke, based on your communication with her.
In one of my conversations with a girl on VKontakte, I suggested going to feed the ducks on one of the lakes near which she lived. For a long time she could not understand what lake we were talking about and what ducks I was telling her about. Then I took a regular Yandex map, marked that same lake, drew ducks and wrote jokingly: "We are ducks, feed us". I didn’t yet know how successful my idea would be, I amused the girl so much that she gave me her phone number right away.
You can come up with your own method that will work, your main task is to smoothly transfer online dating to a telephone conversation, as if this is how it should be.
After she gives you the phone number you need to move on to the next step -
Dating and Pickup
How to get a girl's phone number
It is extremely rare that when meeting a girl, guys immediately promote her for a further meeting, so there is an objective need to take her contact information in order to later develop trust and get her out on a date. And the best option is her phone number.
However, it often happens that you meet a girl, have an interesting dialogue with her, but your attempt to take her phone number fails, or her phone number turns out to be fake. It is perhaps difficult to argue that this is not the most pleasant moment.
Therefore, to achieve success in this matter, you need to follow a clear algorithm of actions.
How to take a girl's phone: instructions
When to take a girl's number. Many guys sincerely believe that you should take a girl’s phone number at the very end, when you are already saying goodbye to her. And this is the cause of half of all failures:
- When you complete a dialogue with a girl, your charm and “magic” stops working, and the girl begins to think about her own affairs. And getting to know you is no longer on the list of things to do. Therefore, a girl may lie or brush you off in order to quickly run about her business. “Okay, I have to go do some errands, bye.”
- A girl can get distracted at any moment, and you simply won’t have time to take her number. For example, her bus will arrive, her mother or friend will call, or even the guy will return from the toilet, and she simply will not be able to talk to you. “Okay, my bus, we’ll talk later when we meet.”
Therefore, you need to understand that taking a girl’s phone number at the very end of your conversation is unprofitable and obviously a losing proposition, since either she will brush you off and run away, or circumstances will not allow her to finish the conversation.
The best time to pick up a girl's phone number. You have to understand that a girl won’t just give her number to a stranger she doesn’t know at all. Therefore, first you need to somehow interest her, and only then take her number. As practice shows when dating girls, this takes two to three minutes.
Therefore, you start a conversation with a girl and look at her reaction. As soon as you understand that she is listening to you, and that she is interested in what you say (if she liked you, she will be interested), you need to take her number.
At the same time, if you see that a girl is shaking her head to the sides, looking somewhere into the distance, showing tension or looking at her watch, then you can be sure that she has already made a decision for herself to refuse you. Interested girls don't behave like that.
We don't give the girl a choice. The moment of taking a number from a girl should be accompanied by a visual challenge for the girl, so that she would feel uncomfortable refusing you. To do this, it is best to take out your phone or a business card with a pen (you should not use a piece of paper). And tell the girl: “It’s nice to talk to you, give me your number, unfortunately, I have to go now, and I would like to continue communicating with you.”
- You showed your interest
- You asked her for her number
- You backed everything up with urgency.
- You showed the potential for further communication.
At the same time, you pretend that you are ready to write down her number, so even if she didn’t want to tell you it initially, it will be extremely awkward and inconvenient for her to refuse you. Therefore, your success is guaranteed.
You also need to know that you shouldn't try to take a girl's phone by asking or asking, "Could you give me your number?" into the hands of a girl and give her a bunch of loopholes to play out the situation.
For example:
- Could you give me your number?
- Another time, handsome, but now you’re out of luck (and smile).
Those. she refuses you without any emotional distress, which means this is an easy decision for her. Therefore, you cannot give such space to a girl; you need to “squeeze” her into a corner.
Be sure to call the girl. After you get the girl’s number, you need to call her back right in front of her. This is not done in order to keep your number with her, but in order to protect yourself from deception.
For example, a girl decided to give you a broken number and then run away from you. She dictates it to you, and then you say: “Let’s also keep my number for you.” You start calling her back, and the girl has a panicked look on her face that she was caught red-handed.
As a rule, the girl immediately begins to say that she “accidentally” gave you her old number, or made a mistake in the number, and begins to dictate her real number. You won’t believe it, but girls get caught doing this very often, use it.
Confidence and calm. A prerequisite for successfully getting a girl’s number is your calm and confidence. , voice faltering, face sweating and knees shaking, the girl will begin to doubt your masculinity, and will think twice before giving a number to such a weak guy.
Your task is to behave in such a way that the girl does not even think that you are afraid and worried. A cool guy approached the girl to meet her, he knows that the girl herself will be happy from such attention, which means he shouldn’t worry.
What to do if a girl doesn’t want to give her phone number
Our practice shows that there are three objective reasons why girls won’t give you your number:
- She has a boyfriend and her heart is closed. If a girl has a favorite young man whom she loves, then for the sake of politeness she can talk to you a little, but if you try to take the number, she will politely refuse you. Having a boyfriend will give her enough reason to overcome the awkward situation you put her in.
- She didn't like you. In 10-15 seconds, the girl draws conclusions about a particular guy. Therefore, if you approached a girl, started talking, and her face became sour and indifferent, then your attempt to take the number is doomed. This happens, it's okay.
- The girl is in a hurry. Let's say a girl is having a bad day today, has a headache and is not in the mood. Then you come up to her and start telling her something. Perhaps she even liked you and was interested in you, but today she will encourage you and switch to her “problems”.
If a girl refuses to give you her number, then you should not look offended or shocked, you should continue the conversation on an abstract topic for 15-20 seconds, and then say goodbye to her and go about your business. A refusal is a refusal, not one will give, so will the other, it’s okay.
Asking for a number a second time, begging and somehow humiliating yourself in front of a girl is not a good idea!
